Couples who fight and repair are doing the rhythm, not failing.
Lynu is an iPhone app for after the fight — or during it, if you both agree. It captures what was actually said and gives each of you a neutral report you can trust, because both of you opted in.
Free to start · iPhone · 17+ · US
Two memories, one record
“She saw the message and chose not to answer. When I brought it up she got cold and made it about her job, like I was unreasonable for noticing.”
“He was already angry when I walked in. I explained once, calmly, and he kept going. I don't think I raised my voice at all.”
What was actually said
“I was in a meeting. I'm allowed to be in a meeting.”
Each memory is the story. The consented recording is the fact — what a video camera would have kept. Lynu is the camera.
One report, written for both of you.
A fictional Thursday. This is the shared part — Sam and Priya each read their own part first, and only then did this unlock. Tap through it: what happened, what was underneath, what was said and heard, and what to say next.
It never declares a winner. No blame percentages, no scores — the patterns are named and quoted, and the fight is given a repair. The quotes are verbatim; the analysis is AI-generated.
Neutral summary
It began about being reachable. It became about being trusted.
Sam expected a reply before dinner; Priya's phone was in her bag through a late call.
Who spoke when · measured from the audio
Sam 58% · Priya 42% · interruptions 4 and 2 · longest monologue 1:10
Where it escalated
The need behind the words
Two people asking, in different ways, to feel safe.
“You didn't even check.”
Underlying need
To be reassured without having to ask.
“I'm allowed to be in a meeting.”
Underlying need
To be trusted without checking in.
The patterns named in this fight: defensiveness (Sam, 7:47) and stonewalling (Priya, 7:49). Each is quoted, not scored.
Where the meaning changed
The same words. A different message.
“I just wanted to know you were okay.”
“You need to account for your time.”
“I'm not doing this right now.”
“You don't matter enough to finish this.”
Something to say tonight
A small opening, in your own words.
“When I didn't hear back I got scared, and it came out as an accusation. I'm sorry for that part.”
“I shut the door because I felt cornered. I'd rather tell you I'm heading into a call than have you wonder.”
Each person's own contribution sits in their private part — read before this shared report unlocked.
A fictional conversation and an illustrative report. AI interpretations can be mistaken.
It never declares a winner.
No blame percentages, no scores. The patterns — criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling — are named and quoted.
You see your own part first.
Each partner reads their private section before the shared report unlocks.
Alone, it doesn't take your side.
A voice debrief steelmans the partner who isn't in the room.
The referee both of you agreed to.
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